(Photography by Thorne)
I’m pretty much a rockstar, but only a few really smart people have figured it out yet. And, they had some questions…
Burghbaby: So, how did you come up with the name ‘BossSanders’?
Me: I needed a new email address, and as a joke I signed up as BossSanders. My last name is Sanders, and the “Boss” part was implying that I was, well…the Boss. And, to be quite honest, I am pretty bossy. Ask anyone.
JudithShakespeare: What’s your favorite word?
Me: My favorite word to say is probably ‘homeskillet.’ You say it like this: ‘What up, homeskillet?’ It’s possible that I’m off my rocker. My favorite words to hear, however are different. I prefer, ‘Anything you want, sweetie.’
JD7: What’s your worst habit?
Me: My worst habit according to me or according to everyone else? According to me, my stress levels and the lack of control over them. I haven’t shot anyone or anything but have been known to turn pretty shades of magenta and scream into pillows. Or faces. Whichever. According to everyone else? Well, who asked them? This is my interview.
ZJ: What do you imagine L being when she grows up?
Me: Happy, creative, and with a deep sense of love for all people. And, no matter what, I hope she knows how much I will always love her and would lay my life down for her.
JD7: Whats your favorite memory?
Me: I don’t have a favorite. I have favorites, but not just one. Every day, I try to make a new favorite memory - unless I’m PMSing, then I just eat lots of chocolate. My wedding day and the birth of L are pretty great. So are the many memories I’ve spent with all of the people that matter so much to me. Even little things, like a day with my cousin, unable to figure out what we want to do - and then watching a movie. Days spent with my BF in highschool, acting like we were fresh out of a mental institution…we had so much fun. Long talks with my Grams, and little outings with her. Making sugar cookies with Grams during snow days. Gramps feeding the fish and reading to me as a kid. Gramps tickling us…and then him rolling over, unable to move when we tickled back. Crafting with my mother, impromptu shopping trips where we always ended up lost. Walks and talks with my father, and the many times I have listened to his stories and the lessons he continues to instill in me. A tractor show with my Ma and Pa and the psycho mexican child that they were babysitting and knew how to wrestle far better than I did - mostly because I didn’t know she was coming from behind (or wrestling). **She wasn’t really psycho, just very very spirited. And, mean. With nails. …And, I have so many more…
ZJ: How about your drunkest memory?
Me: I don’t have a lot of drunken memories. Which has to do more with the fact that I hate throwing up and less to do with me not being able to remember. But, I do remember a 20s (decade party) party in college that I did get rather sloshed at. I threw up on my MaryJanes and my friend took pictures. That wasn’t particularly a good night though, my bf had just broken up with me and I drank a bit too much. Sorry, I don’t have any good drunk stories. I think I might’ve fallen in a ditch though.
ZJ: What’s your earliest memory?
Me: Green carpet and bar stools. I’m guessing I was a baby/toddler and that was in my parents’ old trailer. They got rid of it though when I was a few years old. That’s the EARLIEST memory.
ZJ: Who is the person who has had the best/most positive impact on you…EVER?
Me: People impact me on a daily basis, and I learn a lesson daily. But, the best? My Grams. She’s the sweetest, most hilarious woman I’ve ever known. She will still blow water at you through her straw when you least expect it - at the nicest restaurants. She’s one of the most strongest women I’ve ever known, and she does it without much complaint. She’s honest, hardworking, and very self-sufficient. Her hugs are some of the best in the world, and she can make you feel instantly better - with a styrofoam cup of Sprite, a gentle back rub, and some warm covers. She is kind and gentle and loves people and everything she does, reflects that. That - and she could always make my dad stop yelling at me.
ZJ: What’s your idea of a perfect day (that doesn’t have to include your family)?
Me: That depends on when you ask me, I guess. Right now, my perfect day would include my family and a trip to Walt Disney World for a week or a weekend trip around Christmas-time to St. Louis. That sounds fabulous.
ZJ: If you had $20,000, what would you do with it?
Me: Pay off debt.
ZJ: What’s your favorite piece of clothing and why?
Me: Is this clothing I own or my favorite piece in general? I know, I’m a pain in the butt. My favorite piece that I own? Some blue flannel drawstring PJ pants. They make me feel safe and snug. For wearing out, a crocheted pink top with jewels around the arms. It’s beautiful, and it feels so special.
*Disclaimer: I probably just lied about all of that. But, if you have any questions that you’d like answered, just let me know.
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