Get intimate.
If your marriage is struggling, or you’re in the middle of a disagreement, intimacy may be the last thing on your mind.
“Why would I do that?” You may ask.
Well, because as a great friend of ours says, “Sex doesn’t fix everything, but it creates an atmosphere in which anything can be fixed.”
It’s true.
Plan a special night (or day) for your spouse. Make it special, make it romantic.
If your spouse loves picnics and flowers, plan that. If your spouse is a little more adventurous, plan for that.
They’ll appreciate the thought you put into things and the intimacy that you will share will help you both come together to tackle the other hard things in your marriage.
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February 2nd, 2010 at 6:34 am
This is a great idea, and one that so many couples overlook. A lot of women especially(not trying to be sexist!) seem to need everything to be perfect in the marriage and in their mind before they contemplate intimacy like this, but I completely agree with you that the intimacy alone can create a better atmosphere for the marriage as a whole.