Comments on: On Circular Paths

By: bvh789

bvh789 — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 03:08:24 +0000

People like that just really like to be in control. So really it has very little to do with you. And so very much to do with them. So take it with a whole lot of salt and realize that no matter what your situation was or wasn’t, they’d want to have a say in it and most likely want you to do what you weren’t doing or want to think they had a hand in what you were doing. While in the middle of it, that might not be much of a comfort though. {{{{}}}

By: bosssanders

bosssanders — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 01:16:02 +0000

bronsont – Yep. It’s all different…

RLM – *hugs* and thanks

Miss – I don’t so much mean “with empathy.” I mean the times when people know only a small part of your story and not the ENTIRE thing and believe they can tell you the best or right course of action… The ones that tell you you’re wrong and it doesn’t even matter to them what the entire situation is, because they have already made THEIR decision on what YOU should or should not do. Just because. Kind of like if I told you to wear flip flops and shorts today and I didn’t even bother looking at the weather forecast…I just figured that it would be warm. Because. Just because.

This post was mostly meant about those who claim to KNOW EXACTLY WHERE YOU’VE BEEN but haven’t even heard your story yet. Those who just assume they already know it, and they have already decided what is wrong and right for YOUR situation.

By: Miss

Miss — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 00:27:40 +0000

If its said in empathy, I can see where it comes from. However, if said with negativity, then they can blow it out there ass.

By: Red Lotus Mama

Red Lotus Mama — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 00:14:33 +0000

Well said! And it is so true. *HUGS*

By: bronsont

bronsont — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 22:16:16 +0000

So true, one can empathize, but we each hoe our own row